Weekly Messages

An excellent dad is more than a provider and protector; he is a cornerstone of his family, embodying a myriad of virtues that shape the lives of those he loves. In a world that promotes comfort and convenience far more than sacrifice and hard work, happiness of the moment over preparation for the future, lord knows we need more men to step up to be excellent fathers.  This Father’s Day and beyond, let’s honor the men who embrace the monumental responsibility and profound gift of fatherhood. While encouraging the men around us with the wonderful truth – If you intend to be the man God created you to be and the man we need you to be, you absolutely have the means to do so. And it’s absolutely up to you, no one else. The journey of fatherhood is not marked by an "easy button." There are no perfect fathers, just excellent dads who rise to the occasion with unwavering commitment. Every dad knows that no one-size-fits-all manual exists for parenting, and the trials are as unique as each child. Yet, it is this very unpredictability that defines the essence of fatherhood—a purpose-driven role that tests, challenges, and ultimately transforms a man. An excellent dad is a tapestry woven with traits that reflect the depth of his character. Love is the thread that binds his actions, ensuring that his family feels cherished and valued. Patience allows him to navigate the turbulent waters of parenting with grace, understanding that growth takes time. Strength, both physical and emotional, provides a pillar of support during difficult times, while selflessness ensures that his family’s needs always come first. Loyalty to his family is a hallmark of an excellent dad, fostering a sense of security and trust. Courage enables him to face adversities head-on, demonstrating resilience and determination. As a protector, he ensures the safety and well-being of his loved ones, creating a haven where they can thrive. Responsibility underscores his actions, knowing that his choices impact his family’s future. Respectfulness shapes his interactions, teaching his children the importance of valuing others. An excellent dad is an advisor, offering wisdom and guidance that helps his children navigate life’s complexities. Consistency in his actions and words builds a stable foundation, while humility reminds him that fatherhood is a continuous learning process. Dedication to his family’s growth and happiness is unwavering. Reliability means that his family can always count on him, and his trustworthiness instills confidence. Honorable in his deeds, he sets a moral example, while generosity reflects his willingness to give without expecting anything in return. Commitment to his role as a father is evident in his daily actions, demonstrating that he is fully engaged in the reality of his family’s needs. The world desperately needs men who show up—not as passive spectators, but as active participants in their families and communities. An excellent dad understands that his legacy is a God-given role, one that shapes the future of those around him. Whether as a biological father, a surrogate father-figure, or a mentor, his influence is profound and far-reaching. As one of my father friends, Lawrence Funderburke, said so well, “Children, irrespective of age or background, yearn for the AAA blessing from their fathers: affirmation, appreciation, and acceleration. Affirmation through love and support; appreciation through recognition of their value and purpose; and acceleration through instilling drive, determination, and discipline.” When this blessing is absent, children struggle to find their place in the world, often leading to a life adrift. In today’s affluent society, the necessity of growing up has become optional for many, leading to a pervasive sense of meaninglessness. Historically, men had no choice but to grow up and shoulder responsibilities. Today, however, an excellent dad chooses to rise above the lure of entertainment and consumerism, embracing his role with purpose and conviction. Here’s to the men who embody the virtues of an excellent dad. They are the protectors, providers, and mentors who shape the future, one family at a time. Their legacy is a testament to the strength, love, and dedication that define true fatherhood. If you’re lucky to have a dad like that, you are blessed. If you are one – Thank You!  Keep showing up, Brock  P.S. Be sure to Celebrate the Awesome Dad and Father Figures in your life with Delicious Chocolate and Sweet Gifts. All the cool dad’s love dulci sweets. 😊

Did you hear about that powerful video message from Academy Award winning actor Anthony Hopkins that's been making the rounds? It's called "I Asked God," and it packs a serious punch. When I watched it, I felt like I was getting a wake-up call about life's challenges and what they really mean. If you haven't seen it, let me break it down for you.  Here's the message: “I asked God to take my habit away, He said no. It’s not for me to take it away, it’s for you to give it up.  I asked God to grant me patience. God said no. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations. It isn’t granted. It is earned.  I asked God to grant me happiness. God said no. I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you.  I asked God to spare me pain. God said no. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares, and brings you closer to me.  I asked God to make my spirit grow. He said no, you grow on your own.  But I will prune you to make you fruitful.  I asked for all things that I might enjoy in life. God said no. I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things.  Then I asked God to help me love others as much as God Loves me. He said, finally, you get the idea.”  At first, it's easy to think God is shutting us down, saying, "Nope, not happening." But it's not rejection; it's redirection. Think about it—what if we asked God for strength, and instead of giving us the easy path, He laid more obstacles in our way? It can seem harsh, but maybe it's because He wants us to build strength, not just use it. It's like asking to become a great pianist without ever touching a keyboard—how's that going to work? Take patience. Everyone wants it, but nobody wants to earn it, right? But patience isn't a handout; it's something we develop through trials and setbacks. Think about the last time you were stuck in traffic or waiting for a business deal to close. Did you feel patient? Probably not. But those moments are where we learn the most. Happiness? That’s a tricky one. You'd think it’s about getting what you want, but God says, "I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you." It’s a reminder that happiness isn't something you find; it's something you create. It’s a choice, like deciding to smile even when you're in a bad mood. It's choosing to count your blessings even when things aren't going your way. And then there's suffering. Nobody wants to suffer, but it's where we grow the most. God says suffering draws us apart from worldly cares and brings us closer to Him. It's like a reset button for our spirits. Yeah, it hurts, but it strips away all the distractions and leaves us with what really matters. The most beautiful part, though, is when we ask God to help us love others the way He loves us, and He says, "Finally, you get it." It’s that moment when everything makes sense. It's not about what we get from God; it's about what we give to others. It’s about relationships, community, charity, and lifting each other up. So, what does this mean for us entrepreneurs, business leaders, parents, and faith-centered folks? It means our journey is our lesson. It means every struggle, every setback, every heartbreak is shaping us into better, stronger, and more compassionate people. It means that when God says no, He’s really saying, "Trust me, I’ve got a plan, and it’s better than you could imagine." Let's embrace the journey, with all its bumps and turns. Let's keep pushing, striving, and growing. Because when we look back, we'll realize it was all worth it. Take care, and remember to keep your heart open to God's plan. It might not be what you expected, but it’s always what you need. Your Friend, Brock  P.S. If you haven't seen it yet, watch Anthony Hopkins' powerful "I Asked God" video HERE It's truly inspiring! P.S.S. Father's Day is coming up. We know Dads are hard to shop for… He often won’t tell you what he wants. Good thing we know it’s time with his family and some amazing chocolate. 😊

The idiom "freedom isn't free" expresses gratitude to the military, acknowledging that the freedoms many citizens enjoy are only possible through the risks and sacrifices of military members. Our Freedom’s are possible only through the risks taken and sacrifices made by those in the military. For many Americans, Memorial Day marks a fun-filled long weekend and the unofficial start of summer. However, the holiday was created for a much more solemn purpose: commemorating the U.S. military personnel who died serving our country. In light of this meaningful history, it's important to remember the real reason for the holiday — rather than simply celebrating the extra day off work or that many pools are now open. In honor of the Memorial Day holiday, her are 3 key takeaways all Americans should consider and appreciate.  If there’s one thing that Memorial Day reminds us, it’s that our freedom didn’t come cheaply. Brave men and women preserve the freedom we sometimes forget to appreciate. Their sacrifice and strength is what America has honored for a century and a half. And it is that which gives so much meaning to this Memorial Day. For many Americans, the Memorial Day weekend means a backyard cookout with family and friends. Some head to the beach or to a neighborhood park. Others, recalling the meaning of the holiday itself, visit the graves of fallen soldiers, bearing flowers and wreaths. Some salute individuals they never met, while others mourn the loss of a personal hero. The list of possible activities could go on, but ask yourself: What do they all have in common? Simply this: It’s your decision how you mark Memorial Day. Because you are free. And if there’s one thing that Memorial Day reminds us, it’s that our freedom didn’t come cheaply. Many Americans gave what President Abraham Lincoln called “the last full measure of devotion” so that liberty could continue to ring from, yes, sea to shining sea. It’s all too easy, especially for those of us blessed to have grown up in this great land, to take our liberty for granted. We forget that freedom isn’t free. It must be paid for, and not just once. Again and again, Americans have stepped forward in a moment of crisis and put their lives on the line. It’s their sacrifice we mark on Memorial Day. And while we feel so much sadness for their loss, I think there is something else we should consider when we recall those who fell in battle. It comes down, I believe, to what motivated those brave men and women to do what they did. Imagine walking towards danger and possible death when every fiber of your body is screaming at you to seek shelter. What makes you march toward the guns rather than flee from them? A soldier, it is said, fights not because he hates who is in front of him, but because he loves who is behind him. Those we commemorate on Memorial Day fought for mothers and fathers. For sisters and brothers. For sons, daughters, comrades, and all others they held dear. They fought for our liberty and land, too, because they knew America is worth fighting for. And for the last 150 years, we have given them the honor they so richly deserve. On May 30, 1868, future president James A. Garfield spoke at Arlington Cemetery for the first national commemoration of what was then known as Decoration Day, and his words resonate to this day: “We do not know one promise these men made, one pledge they gave, one word they spoke; but we do know they summed up and perfected, by one supreme act, the highest virtues of men and citizens. For love of country they accepted death, and thus resolved all doubts, and made immortal their patriotism and their virtue.” We now live in an era marked by political division and social strife. Love of country is considered old-fashioned by some. So too are patriotism and virtue. But those who feel that way forget the liberty they enjoy to express such sentiments was won by patriots who felt very differently. And it is safeguarded today by service members who do so, too. Those brave men and women preserve the freedom we sometimes forget to appreciate. They do it for the love of their family, friends, and community. But they also do it for their devotion to each of us and the nation of which we are all a part. Their sacrifice and strength is what America has honored for a century and a half. And it is that which gives so much meaning to Memorial Day. Each of us, as Americans, have what we have, and the blessings are many, because people in generations before chose to Fight - Giving All They Had and More.  I'm grateful today and everyday for their sacrifice. Brock  P.S. God, Family, Country, Community are the core values that dulci sweets is built upon. They are the Why behind the What that guide us every day to gratefully serve people that love extraordinary chocolate. 

Picture this: a sea of pink, a cacophony of cheers and laughter, and a palpable sense of hope and determination in the air. This isn't just any event - it's the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure, a beacon of light in the fight against breast cancer. And let me tell you, if you've never been, you're missing out on something truly extraordinary.   As I stood amidst the crowd of people in the Hope Village area, serving up our special chocolates as gifts to hundreds of incredible survivors courtesy of the love and generosity of the Karen Gandarillas Legacy, I couldn’t help but feel a surge of emotions. It's not just about the sweets or the fundraising; it's about the people - survivors, fighters, and those we've lost. Their stories, their courage, and their resilience is incredibly inspiring.   At the heart of it all lies three essential virtues: faith, love, and hope. These aren't just words; they're the lifeblood of our existence, the guiding stars that lead us through even the darkest of times.   First and foremost, there's faith. It's the unwavering belief in something greater than ourselves, the trust that carries us through the toughest of storms. As Corrie ten Boom once said, "Faith sees the invisible, believes the unbelievable, and receives the impossible." It's the anchor that keeps us grounded, the light that banishes fear and doubt.   Then there's love - pure, unconditional, and eternal. It's the force that binds us together, the essence of our very being. Jesus himself commanded us to love one another as he has loved us, and that's a pretty powerful call to action if you ask me. Love isn't just a feeling; it's a choice, a decision to extend grace and compassion to those around us.   And finally, there's hope - the confident expectation of better days ahead. It's the light at the end of the tunnel, the promise that keeps us going when all seems lost. With hope in our hearts, we can overcome any obstacle, scale any mountain, and emerge victorious on the other side.   But here's the thing - we can't do it alone. We need each other, now more than ever. So I urge you, my fellow warriors in this battle against breast cancer, to keep stacking up the prayers, to keep shining your light in the darkness, and to keep spreading love and joy wherever you go.   And if you feel called to do more, if you want to make a tangible difference in the lives of those affected by this disease, I invite you to join us in our mission to end breast cancer forever. Visit komencolumbus.org  and select "Komen Columbus" or "2024 Komen Columbus Race for the Cure" to donate and get involved.    Together, we can make a difference. Together, we can bring an end to breast cancer. Together, we can stand strong for others and shine brilliantly bright in the face of adversity.   With faith, love, and hope as our guiding lights, there's nothing we can't accomplish. So let's lace up our shoes, raise our voices, and march forward with courage and conviction. The future may be uncertain, but one thing is for sure - with each step we take, we're one step closer to a world without breast cancer.   Shine on, my friends. The world is counting on us.   With love and hope,   Brock    P.S. Join us in spreading light and joy as we stand strong for others in their time of need.  Before making a donation, first select “Local Events”. Select the DONATE button on 2024 Komen Columbus Race for The Cure. Next to the “Participant” box, enter “Richard Gandarillas” (first and last name) and click the “GO” button. Scroll down and select “Richard Gandarillas” or “Team Karen Gandarillas” to donate.

Turning 50 is a milestone filled with nostalgia, gratitude, and just a hint of disbelief. I've spent half a century on this earth, and though I'm far from having all the answers, I've certainly picked up some wisdom along the way. Reflecting on my journey, I understand the meaning behind the saying, "We enter this life looking like our parents; we leave this life looking like our decisions." This idea is echoed in Galatians 6:7: "Be not deceived, God is not mocked, whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap." It's a straightforward yet profound reminder of the power of our choices and how the paths we choose shape our lives. When I was younger, I used to think that 50 was ancient—a time when you'd be slowing down, maybe wearing a cardigan and sipping tea. Now that I'm here, I realize just how wrong I was. It's not a time for slowing down; it's a time to speed up, to chase dreams, and to embrace the wisdom that comes from five decades of living, loving, and learning. Let me tell you, life has thrown some curveballs my way. I’ve survived a car accident that required me to be life-flighted, had a plane propeller nearly take off my arm and/or my head  giving me 120 stitches, confronted cancer, and witnessed the downfall of a thriving business that I worked over a decade of my life to build. Each of these moments tested me, pushed me to my limits, and ultimately made me stronger. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that life doesn't follow a straight line. It twists and turns, sometimes leading us into dark places, but always with the possibility of finding light on the other side. So, what's the secret to making it to 50 with a smile on your face and a heart full of hope? For me, my faith in God is the foundation from which everything originates and flows from. This too, is a work in progress, but it directs my attention to start with kindness. Yes, simple, everyday kindness. I believe in speaking kindly, loving fully, and living completely. These aren't just words—they're a way of life. It's about treating people with respect, giving without expecting anything in return, and moving through the world with purpose and humility. And let's not forget about gratitude. If there's one thing I've learned over these 50 years, it's that gratitude is the key to happiness.  When you face challenges, it's easy to get caught up in the negativity, to focus on what's going wrong instead of what's going right. But I've found that when you take a moment to count your blessings, the world starts to look a little brighter. I’m forever grateful for my family, my friends, and the lessons I've learned along the way. I'm grateful for every setback, because it's in those hard and, often painful moments, that I grew the most. Another big lesson I've learned is the importance of forgiveness. Let's be real—this is tough and holding onto grudges is exhausting. It’s like carrying around another person, twice your size. I choose to forgive, not because the other person necessarily deserves it, but because I deserve peace. When I let go of anger, I make room for the good in my life; experiencing more joy, laughter, and love. Now, let's talk about freedom. Not the kind of freedom that comes with age, but the real kind—involves attention and awareness, and discipline and being able to care for others, sacrificing for them, and being willing to give without expecting anything in return. True freedom means you’re not bound by resentment or fear. It's about being able to think for yourself, to challenge the status quo, and to find joy in the little things. As I look ahead to the next 50 years, I know there will be more challenges, more curveballs, and probably a few more stitches. But I also know that there's so much to look forward to—new adventures, new friends, and countless opportunities to make a difference in the world. That’s our full dedication here at dulci sweets. I’m excited about what the future holds, and I hope you'll join me on this journey. So, here's my advice to anyone approaching their 50th birthday: Embrace it. Celebrate it. Live every day with intention, laugh often, and be a light to others along the journey. And when life throws you a curveball, trust that something positive will come from it. Look for the possibilities (a.k.a. silver lining), because it's there, waiting for you to find it. Happy 50th to me—and here's to the next 50 years and the wisdom that each new day brings. Your 50 year old friend, Brock  P.S. Do all you can with all you have been given, consistently and thankfully. Leave the rest to Good Lord above. 

Mother's Day is more than just a date on the calendar. It's a moment to honor the incredible women who shape our lives. A mother's love is powerful—so powerful that it can change the course of our day with just one word.  For me, Mother's Day is a reminder of the unconditional love that exists in the world. It's the kind of love that holds you when you're falling apart, that believes in you when you doubt yourself, and that guides you back to your center when you've lost your way. Proverbs 31:25 describes it perfectly: "She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come."  Isn't that the essence of a mother's love? The strength to face anything, and the grace to do it with a smile. During my high school years I specifically remember a couple painful moments when I had experienced significant setbacks. Each time I felt defeated and unsure what came next. My mom knew I was hurting, but didn't ask a lot of questions; instead, she wrapped me in a hug and said, "It's okay to feel this way. But remember, you're stronger than you think, and this won't last forever." She would stay by my side talking about everything and nothing at all. Within a hour or two, I felt like I could take on the world again and overcome the pain of the moment. That's the beauty of a mother's love—it has the power to heal. When everything seems dark and hopeless, a mother's words can light the way. They give us the strength to keep going, even when we want to quit. It's a love that transcends time and space, bringing us back to our center. And isn't it amazing how they seem to know exactly what we need, without us saying a word? My mom always made me believe that I could accomplish anything. She never doubted my abilities, even when I did. There were times when I was ready to throw in the towel, but she knew better. She pushed me to keep going, to never give up, and to always believe in myself. It's because of her that I am who I am today. And isn't that what every mother does? They lift us up, even when we can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. So, on this Mother's Day, let's take a moment to thank the moms in our lives. Let's celebrate the love they give so freely, the sacrifices they make without hesitation, and the strength they show in every situation. They are the heart and soul of our families, the glue that holds us together. Without them, we wouldn't be where we are today. If you're lucky enough to have a mom like mine, someone who has always believed in you, then you know exactly what I'm talking about. Let's cherish these moments and hold onto them tightly. Because a mother's love is not just for a day—it's forever.  So, what's one thing your amazing mom made you believe about yourself? For me, it was inspiring belief. And I can tell you, it's a gift that lasts a lifetime. Happy Mother's Day to all the incredible moms out there. That includes my absolutely Incredible, Beautiful, and Amazing wife/MOM to our boys. You are the unsung heroes, the silent warriors, and the hearts of our homes. Thank you for everything you do. We love you more than words can say. Celebrating Mom’s Everywhere, Brock  P.S. This Mother's Day, don't forget to make her feel as sweet and beautiful as she truly is. Give her gifts that allow her to indulge a bit, and show her just how much she's cherished. 

You know that golden rule your grandma always preached? "If you can't say something nice, zip it!" Well, turns out, Granny was onto something big. This principle isn't just about sparing someone's feelings—it's a game-changer for our entire outlook on life. By ditching the negativity and embracing positivity, we're not just making the world a better place—we're unlocking our own potential for greatness. Negativity, in its various forms, can be likened to a shadow that dims the brightness of our existence. It lurks in our minds, homes, workplaces, and social interactions, casting a dark cloud over our relationships and endeavors. However, amidst the chaos and uncertainty of the modern world, the beacon of positivity shines ever brighter, offering solace, hope, and resilience. In the pursuit of building and nurturing meaningful connections, negativity emerges as the greatest adversary. Its’ insidious influence taints our thoughts, colors our perceptions, and sows seeds of discord in our interactions. Thus, it becomes imperative to cultivate a mindset that accentuates the positive, fostering an environment conducive to growth, harmony, and success. Consider the analogy of a wise monkey discerningly devouring a ripe banana, discarding the peel to savor the nourishing fruit within. Similarly, we are urged to relinquish the "peel" of negativity, redirecting our focus towards the abundant reservoir of positivity that surrounds us. By doing so, we not only nourish our own spirits but also radiate warmth and light, drawing others towards us like magnets. Yet, the journey towards accentuating the positive is not devoid of challenges or setbacks. It requires a conscious effort to reframe our thoughts, words, and actions in a manner that reflects the radiance of positivity.  That often includes recognizing negative talk, energy, and actions and choosing not to participate.  Yes, you know what I’m referring too – that ever-present and viciously destructive beast that lingers around every corner – Gossip.  Imagine a world where we all just kept our lips zipped and focused on the stuff that really matters—like building trust, fostering creativity, and kicking butt at whatever we are doing. Yeah, it's not just a pipe dream. It's a world we can create together, simply by refusing to take offense and shutting down the gossip train before it even leaves the station. So, next time you find yourself tempted to dish the dirt, ask yourself: is this really worth my time and energy? Or could I be using this moment to elevate myself and those around me?  Trust me, the answer is crystal clear. When life throws you a curveball and you sense negative vibes multiplying faster than rabbits in springtime, remember to accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative. It's not just a catchy tune—it's a mantra for success, happiness, and all-around awesomeness. Now go out there and show the world what you're made of! Until next time, Stay Positive. Brock  P.S. Negativity, gossip, and taking offense? Yeah, we've all been there. But together, we can rise above and spread a little more joy in the world. P.P.S. Got a friend who could use a dose of positivity? Forward this message their way and let's spread the good vibes together! (Because hey, positivity is always better when shared!)

We all crave peace, don't we?  In a world filled with turmoil and unrest, demands and deadlines, the pursuit of peace becomes a paramount endeavor. We all yearn for that tranquil haven where the storms of life cease their relentless battering, and serenity reigns supreme. But how do we attain such a lofty goal? How do we make peace not just a fleeting visitor, but a permanent resident in our lives? Consider this: happiness often springs forth from the well of peace. It's the sense of calm that settles in our hearts when we align with our true selves, when we utilize our gifts and talents to their fullest extent. It's about living authentically, striving to fulfill our purpose, and ultimately glorifying God in all that we do. So, where do we begin this journey towards peace? It starts with a fundamental shift in perspective. We must recognize that the status quo will not lead us to a different outcome; change requires intentional action.  Doing the same thing and expecting a different results is Insanity.  We must cultivate an unwavering commitment to seeking out opportunities for growth and transformation, even in the most mundane moments of our daily lives. Think about it. From the bleary-eyed mornings to the quiet moments at the stoplight, from the hustle and bustle of work to the reset pauses in between, there lies an opportunity to infuse our lives with peace. At the heart of this pursuit lies the practice of prayer. Ah, prayer! The gateway to divine communion, the lifeline connecting us to the source of all peace.  It's not just a ritualistic recitation of words; it's a sacred dialogue with God. As we turn our hearts towards God in prayer, we open ourselves up to receive divine guidance, comfort, and strength. We acknowledge our dependence on Him, entrusting our hopes, fears, and dreams into His loving hands. Scripture exhorts us to "pray without ceasing," to maintain an attitude of continual communion with God. Through prayer, we surrender our burdens, our anxieties, and our uncertainties, allowing God to work His transformative power in our lives. We intercede for others, lifting up their needs and concerns before the throne of grace, knowing that God hears and answers every prayer according to His perfect will. But prayer is not just about asking; it's also about listening. In the stillness of our hearts, God speaks to us, offering words of wisdom, comfort, and encouragement. He reminds us of His unfailing love and faithfulness, assuring us that He is always with us, guiding us along the path of righteousness. As we cultivate a habit of prayer, we begin to experience a profound sense of peace that transcends our circumstances. It's a peace that surpasses all understanding, anchoring our souls in the unshakeable foundation of God's love and grace. Even amidst the storms of life, we find solace in the knowledge that God is sovereign, and His plans for us are good. So, let us not grow weary in our pursuit of peace. Let us commit ourselves wholeheartedly to the practice of prayer, knowing that in God's presence, we will find the peace our souls so desperately crave. As we draw near to Him, He will draw near to us, filling our lives with His peace, His joy, and His unending grace. If you desire greater peace in your life, it begins with intentionality. Take deliberate steps to redirect your focus towards the peace you seek.  Remember, what you choose to focus on has the power to shape your reality…  Guard your thoughts and emotions diligently, for they hold the key to your inner peace. Stay vigilant, stay committed, and above all, persevere in your pursuit of peace. With unwavering determination and steadfast faith, you will surely find the peace that your heart longs for. Wishing you greater peace and purpose, Brock  P.S. Doing all you can with all you have been given, where you are, and in all that you do  requires your full attention and very little room for shenanigans. 

If you want advice on your health, wealth, relationships, and finance, there’s not a shortage of self-proclaimed experts on every social media platform to pick from.  As your friend and trusted go-to sweets partner, just be aware of the rampant insanity and gobbledygook.  From espousing cold plunges, red-light therapy, yellow glasses, drinking alkaline water, using essential oils, walking barefoot, crystal rubbing, magnet therapy, and the list goes on and on.  Look, do whatever you want and use whatever you believe works for you. I’m not here to tell you what works and what doesn’t work for you. What I will offer is the possibility that none of that is necessary – none of it!  How so you ask? Hang with me… It comes down to the first principle; to increase my success I have to do more of ‘X’, that’s it. Anything that is not me doing ‘X’ is detracting me from my ability to do so.  I suggest a lot of these items and rituals just cause and allow for procrastination and ultimately detracts from people doing ‘X’. And I confidently assume you know what ‘X’ is for you to hit your marks and be more successful. If so, You need to do more of ‘X’, period!  The follow up question to that is when you get up each morning, how fast can you get to work on ‘X’ and how long can you stick with it? How fast can you improve and become excellent at doing it?  Everything else is procrastination, delay, and distraction.  Now, if you need to do some of those things to help you do ‘X’ – that’s fine. No judgement. We all have our things. Just be honest with yourself, it is not what produces success. Be careful who you listen to, and the source of information you give your best attention to. Turn down the noise and be intentional with your choices. Like this weekly 2-3 minute read. Lol. Look at the most successful people in history, while on their journey to becoming successful. They didn’t cryo, cold plunge, hang upside down, use IV drips, etc..  They were ferociously focused and committed to doing ‘X’ – faster, longer, better, period!  So the next time you find yourself searching for the next hack, trick or new scientific theory, remember the classic acronym and statement: K.I.S.S. = Keep It Super Simple  Far more often than not…Simple Succeeds. Fancy fails.  Success is a lot simpler than we often make it and we often believe. What’s hard, is getting yourself to do ‘X’ consistently, long enough for the compound effect to take hold.  My interpretation of the compound effect is doing ‘X’ which includes the small things that often go unnoticed, and most won’t do, that when done consistently, with excellence, produces the Big results everyone sees and wishes they had.  You choose, it’s your option. Include those things or skip them and simply solve for ‘X’. What is the X factor to your success? No matter what you do for a living, at the end of the day, we only get paid for the results we produce or don’t produce.  Keep it simple rock star, Brock  P.S.  Experts and professionals simplify. Beginners, Amateurs and Wannabe’s make it complicated. This is why we make it so simple and easy to let the people in your world know how much you value them by surprising them with a sweet gift. 

You certainly do not have to be an Ohio State football fan or follower of the game to want to know this story. It’s one that I remembered hearing on the news shortly after it happened. And one that I will never forget after hearing more about what happened from the man himself, 17 years later. This is the remarkable story of Tyson Gentry—a tale of courage, perseverance, and the unwavering strength of the human spirit. It's a narrative that will leave an indelible mark on your heart and inspire you to face your own challenges head-on. Tyson grew up cheering for Ohio State and his dream was to play for the Buckeyes. He set goals, worked hard, and eventually earned the opportunity to be a part of the team he loved. Tyson was a preferred walk-on (receiver/punter) for Ohio State in 2004. During a team scrimmage his sophomore year in 2006, he sustained a C-4 spinal cord injury resulting in him being paralyzed, losing all movement and sensation from the neck down. After surgery, he regained limited mobility in his arms. Gentry never lost consciousness on the practice field. He remembers making the catch in traffic and getting tackled. He remembers his head hitting the ground. He remembers his neck snapping. Then came the worst concern any player can have for himself. "I knew something was wrong right away," Gentry said. "But at the same time, I wanted to give it a few seconds and hope it just went away. I didn't know if it was a stinger or what.  “It didn’t go away. Then, everything sinks in slowly." This is where my mind begins to race with thoughts of devastation, disbelief, pain, and righteous anger. One, if I was in his position, two if he was my son. I simply can’t find the words for how I’d feel let alone handle the situation.  Again, I share this from the perspective of physically being in the same room with Tyson, seeing him in his wheelchair, hearing him recall the moment it happened and the many moments in the hospital that followed.  I’m sorry if this breaking your heart and makes you feel a bit uncomfortable, but I promise there’s something super amazing coming.  While being scared, hurt and sad, he shared that only one-time, a few months after the accident did he have a problem with the, ‘Why me?’ part of it.  If you’re like me, you have to be asking, How is that possible?  Yes, Tyson had the love and care of his amazing family by his side. Yes, he and is family had unwavering faith and knew God was there with him also. He had tremendous support from Coach Tressel, the entire coaching staff, teammates, and Buckeye Nation.  Thousands of letters came pouring in encouraging Tyson, letting him know he was on the minds, hearts, and in the prayers of many people. However, as time passed the amount and frequency of those cards and letters decreased.  His parents saw him slipping into a depressed state, and begin to struggle with the very natural question – Why me?’ That’s when his parents came across another encouraging note that they shared with Tyson. It was short, but powerful… “Never give up. No matter how much adversity you face. You can always overcome anything. There are many people who believe in you.” There was no name written on the note, but those words and that perspective reframed his attitude and lifted his spirit. That message meant so much to him, he pinned it to the message board in his room and read it often for the next few days.  Now, here's the kicker: that note wasn't from some anonymous well-wisher. It was Tyson's own words, penned during a tough time in his freshman year at Ohio State. Talk about a full-circle moment, right? So, let me pose a question to you: what message would you write to yourself in your darkest hour? Take a moment to ponder that, because as Tyson's journey teaches us, sometimes the greatest source of strength lies within ourselves. "It puts a lot of things in perspective," Tyson said. "Before I was injured, I looked back and thought certain things would give me a bad day, or my day is going poorly. Now, I don't focus on the little things. I focus on the things I have control over, on the positive things.  "I've grown from this and can only get stronger from this." In 2014, Tyson and his wife, Megan, started New Perspective Foundation. The mission was simple: make sure families can be together after someone sustains a spinal cord injury. New Perspective helps families with their travel expenses (airfare, lodging, gas, rental car, etc.), so they can afford to be at the hospital bedside of their loved one while he or she is recovering from a spinal cord injury. Today, Tyson and Megan have two boys, Adam and Ryan. Tyson’s faith has only grow stronger. One of his favorite bible verses is Romans 8:28. “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” According to Tyson, that means a lot of good can come from a bad situation. All the pain, sadness and suffering can build something stronger and present wonderful opportunities that otherwise may never have come.  Man, do I have a lot to learn. Thank You Tyson!  Wishing you a healthy and positive perspective, Brock P.S. Don’t give someone else advice you wouldn’t give yourself.  - Tyson Gentry

How & When Do You Really Know? Answer: When any of these items are present; Conflict. Challenge. Adversity. Pain. Discomfort. Disappointment. Loss.  It’s never when things are going well. Easy and fun. Joyful and Victorious.  Picture this: You're in the midst of chaos, the weight of the world pressing down on your shoulders like an oversized backpack filled with bricks. It's that moment when you're not just looking for a friend; you're searching for someone who's got your back no matter what. So, how do you find out who's truly made of the good stuff when the going gets tough? Well, my friend, it's all about character without compromise. Think back to those times when life threw you a curveball the size of a watermelon. Maybe it was a job interview gone awry, a tough match on the field, or even a heart-to-heart talk with a friend that went south quicker than a rollercoaster. It's in those moments of conflict, challenge, and adversity that true character shines through like a beacon in the storm. But hold up, why does it take rough seas to reveal someone's true colors? Shouldn't we all just walk around wearing our character on our sleeves like a badge of honor? Well, my friend, life's not a walk in the park. It's more like a roller derby, full of twists, turns, and occasional collisions. It takes those bumps and bruises to reveal who's riding shotgun with you and who's jumping ship at the first sign of trouble. Now, I'm not suggesting we tie people to trees and see how they fare without food or water. That's just plain cruel (and probably illegal). But think about it: when the going gets tough, who's standing by your side and who's running for the hills faster than a scared rabbit? It's those moments of trial and tribulation that separate the wheat from the chaff, the diamonds from the rough. And let's not forget about the power of true friendship. I'm talking about those buddies who stick with you through thick and thin, through rain or shine, through good times and bad hair days. They're not just there for the laughs and the high fives; they're the ones who roll up their sleeves and dive headfirst into the trenches with you, ready to battle whatever life throws your way. But hey, it's not all doom and gloom. In fact, it's during those dark and stormy nights that we find our true allies, our true comrades-in-arms. They're the ones who stand by us when the world seems to be crumbling around us, offering a hand to pick you up and a shoulder to stand on. And let me tell you, my friend, there's nothing more precious than a friend who sticks with you through thick and thin. So, as you navigate the crazy ride we call life, remember to cherish those who show true character without compromise. Hold onto those friends who stand by you through the storms, and be the kind of friend who's there when others falter. Because when push comes to shove, it's those true friends who will lift you up and carry you to victory, one step at a time. Encouraged action: If a very cool someone came to your mind as you read this I suggest you take the next 3-5 minutes to record a video or audio message letting that person know how much you appreciate them. Simply include three items: Why you are sending the message. Tell them Thank You! You are grateful to have them as a friend.  Explain what they did for you. They might not even be aware of what they did and certainly the immense value their actions had on you.  Until next time, keep shining bright!  Brock  P.S. Don’t stop here. Reach out to that friend who's always been there for you and let them know how much you appreciate them.

In 1989, Armenia shook with the fury of the earth, leaving devastation in its wake. Among the ruins stood a father, his heart pounding with fear for his young son, Armand. The school where Armand spent his days was now nothing but a heap of rubble and despair. Ignoring the warnings of onlookers, the father plunged into the chaos, his hands bleeding as he clawed at the debris. "Join me or leave me alone," he growled, his determination unyielding. For forty-seven agonizing hours, he toiled tirelessly, fueled by a father's love that knew no bounds. With each passing moment, hope threatened to slip away, but still, he pressed on. Then, amid the silence of despair, a voice pierced through the darkness. "Daddy, is that you?" Armand's innocent cry shattered the father's exhaustion, filling him with renewed strength. With trembling hands, he cleared away the final obstacles, revealing not only his own son but a gathering of classmates, survivors in the face of tragedy. Armand's face radiated with faith and certainty. "I told you my Daddy would come," he declared to his amazed friends. "I told you my Daddy would come." Perhaps, you too find yourself buried beneath the rubble of life's struggles. Maybe stress and discouragement weigh heavy upon your soul. But know this: God is pursuing you relentlessly, His love a beacon of hope in the darkness. Though you may not see His hand at work, He is there, tirelessly clearing away the wreckage of your life. And when the time is right, you will feel His presence, hear His voice, and know that He has never abandoned you. For just as a father's love knows no limits, so too does the love of your Heavenly Father. And He calls out to you now, saying, "I told you I would come. I told you I would come." So lift your eyes from the rubble, my friend, and behold the boundless love that surrounds you. For you are His child, cherished beyond measure, and He will never rest until He has drawn you close once more. Let Easter be a reminder that no matter how dire our circumstances may seem, there is always hope in the promise of new life, of redemption, and of the unshakeable love of our Heavenly Father. May this Easter fill your heart with the hope and joy that surpasses all understanding, knowing that God is relentlessly pursuing you, ready to lift you up and restore you to wholeness. Happy Easter, Brock  P.S. This Easter, let's celebrate the triumph of love over despair.  Together, let's lift each other from the rubble and embrace the promise of new beginnings.🌷🕊️

I’m guessing since you are reading this, you have heard a little about the recent phenomenon with Freeze-Dried/Vacuum-Dried candies, YES?  Next question – have you tried any? More importantly, have you experienced dulci sweets version? If you haven't jumped on the freeze-dried candy craze yet, hold onto your hats because you're in for a treat that's as exhilarating as a roller coaster ride through Candyland! Picture this: you pop a freeze-dried Skittle into your mouth, expecting the familiar burst of fruity goodness. But wait! What's this? A delightful crunch accompanies the explosion of flavor, sending your senses into overdrive. It's like a flavor fireworks show right in your mouth! Speaking of Skittles – the Classic and Wild Berry Skittles are leading the pack in this candy revolution. With their intense fruit flavors and satisfying crunch, they're a must-have for any freeze-dried candy connoisseur. And who can resist the temptation of JR (Jolly Ranchers) and Lemon Puffs (Lemonheads) at dulci sweets? These delectable treats take freeze-dried candy to a whole new level with their unique flavors and irresistible crunch. They're the perfect combination of sweet and tangy, making them a snack-time favorite for kids and adults alike. But what's the secret behind this crunchy delight? It's all in the magic of freeze-drying, my friends. Unlike traditional candy-making methods that can sometimes leave you with a sticky mess, freeze-drying preserves the essence of flavors while transforming the texture into a crispy, airy sensation that's downright addictive.  It's like the candy version of biting into a fluffy cloud! Now, I know what you're thinking. Is freeze-dried candy just a passing trend, here today and gone tomorrow like last year's fashion fad? Not a chance!  This is a full-blown revolution in the world of sweets, and it's here to stay. With its vibrant flavors, satisfying textures, and health-conscious appeal, freeze-dried candy is like a breath of fresh air in a sea of sugary indulgence. That’s right, I did say health conscious – freeze-dried treats retain their nutritional value!  While you're busy enjoying the crunch-tastic goodness of freeze-dried treats or the melt-in-your-mouth perfection of dulci sweets wildly popular "Honey Bites” that enhance the flavor of a Bit-O-Honey and wrap it in our luxurious milk chocolate, you're also nourishing your body with essential vitamins, fiber, and other goodies. It's like hitting the jackpot at the candy store and the health food aisle all at once! Okay, not healthy like only eating fruits and vegetables, but oh so good and sooo much more fun.  But enough talk. It's time to experience the freeze-dried candy phenomenon for yourself. Whether you're a die-hard candy aficionado or just someone looking to add a little excitement to snack time, freeze-dried treats are the perfect way to satisfy your cravings. So go ahead, indulge in a symphony of flavors that will redefine the way you think about candy. Your taste buds will thank you! Oh, and one more thing. Freeze-dried candy isn't just for snacking – it's a culinary journey waiting to happen. Imagine sprinkling freeze-dried Skittles on top of your favorite dessert for an added burst of flavor and crunch. Or mixing freeze-dried Rainbow Clusters (Nerd Clusters) into your favorite yogurt smoothie for a breakfast experience that's anything but boring. The possibilities are endless, my friends, and the only limit is your imagination. So what are you waiting for? The upcoming Easter Celebration provides the perfect time join the freeze-dried candy craze and embark on a flavor adventure like no other. And of course, dulci sweets has you well covered.  Check out the special Freeze Dried Family Easter Collection available with an array of delightful treats to choose from, including Easter-themed baskets packed with freeze-dried candy favorites and decadent chocolates, you're sure to find something that will make your holiday extra sweet. Don't miss out – hop on over and order yours today! Wishing you an egg-stra sweet Easter, Brock  P.S. You absolutely must try the Honey Bites – Holy Smokes. The greatest tasting and next-level luxurious Milk Ball magic you will ever have. 

I recently had the privilege of engaging with a group of remarkable high school students immersed in the world of entrepreneurship. Their journey, from identifying needs to crafting ideas and executing plans, ignited a profound conversation on the invaluable lessons gleaned from both business and life. As champions of goodness and sharing, I couldn't help but reflect on our discussion and how it resonates with the essence of dulci sweets – Goodness Created to be shared. I thought you might enjoy them too, and hopefully share some of your own. Lesson #1: Don’t let the fear of the finish, belittle your faith to start.  Fear often looms large when embarking on any venture. The fear of failure, of the unknown, can paralyze even the most determined soul. But remember, you don't need to have all the answers to begin. Have faith in yourself and your abilities. Trust that with each step forward, clarity will emerge, and challenges will transform into opportunities. God doesn't reveal the entire journey because it would overwhelm us; instead, He guides us one step at a time. Embrace the uncertainty with faith, for obedience often makes sense only in retrospect. Lesson #2: Life will certainly knock you down. The key is to not let it break you down.  Life has a knack for throwing curveballs when least expected. Yet, the measure of our character lies not in avoiding setbacks but in how we rise from them. Each fall is an opportunity to demonstrate resilience, to dust ourselves off, and stand tall again. Remember, if God leads you to a path, He will equip you for the journey. Keep getting up, keep showing up, and never surrender to defeat. For as the proverb says, "A just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again." Lesson #3: Choose Your Hard Success is a journey riddled with challenges, but so is failure. The difference lies in the choice of hardship. Do you choose the struggles of success, filled with meaning and growth, or the anguish of unfulfilled dreams? Success doesn't guarantee an easy path; rather, it promises fulfillment and purpose. Understand that the dream is free, but the hustle, the relentless pursuit of excellence, is where the true test lies. When you discover your why, your purpose, you unlock the willpower to navigate any obstacle and soar towards your aspirations. In every pursuit, remember that the journey is as significant as the destination. Your willingness to endure, to learn, and to grow shapes the trajectory of your success. As you continue to journey through life and business, may these lessons serve as guiding beacons, illuminating your path with faith, resilience, and purpose. The conversation with those students was profoundly inspiring, reminding me of the boundless potential within each of us. I pray that these reflections resonate with you as you navigate your own path. Remember, your journey is not just about reaching the destination but about the person you become along the way. Wishing you abundant growth and unwavering success, Brock P.S. I eagerly await hearing about the lessons life has taught you. Your insights and experiences are invaluable in our collective pursuit of excellence.  

When you were in school, did you ever get to go on a sweet field trip to a Chocolate and Candy company? Me neither. But, how cool would that have been? Well, a class of fifth graders from Delaware Christian School got to do just that last week with us. And let me just say, more schools should do this for their students. The excitement on their faces and big laughs heard throughout the building (teachers and chaperones included) said it all.  These kids stepped into Dulci Sweets with big smiles and even bigger imaginations. They suited up in chocolatier aprons and dove into the world of chocolate-making with gusto. Picture this: dipping Oreos (or should I say drowning) in melted chocolate, creating their own sweet dulci s’mores masterpieces. Then, they went crazy over our freeze-dried candy – I'm talking candy chaos in the best way possible! And you know what added an extra sprinkle of fun? Mike, our resident candyman, throwing out handfuls of freeze-dried candies to the kids like confetti at a party. Their laughter filled the air, and it was pure joy to watch. At Dulci Sweets, we believe in the power of sweetness to bring people together, to spread joy, and to remind us of the goodness that surrounds us. Our mission is simple yet profound: Goodness Created to be shared. Because when you've got something as sweet as chocolate, why keep it all to yourself? As the day came to a close, I couldn't help but think, "Why don't more schools do this?" It's not just about the chocolate (although that's a big plus), but it's about giving kids a chance to get creative, work together, and make sweet memories that'll last a lifetime. Maybe now more will – now that they know dulci sweets opens its doors and kitchen to sweet opportunities like that.  So, here's to more sweet field trips and more moments of chocolate-covered fun for kids everywhere. After all, life's too short not to indulge in a little sweetness every now and then, right? With chocolate smiles and candy laughs, Brock  P.S. Educators and school classes – If you and your students would like to embark on a sweet adventure of chocolate making and joy-filled memories, don't hesitate to reach out to us. Dulci Sweets welcomes school groups ready to share in the magic of chocolate making.